First of all, I want to point out that everybody reacts differently to using sex toys. But to answer the question, generally, no, your vagina will not loosen if you use a dildo. That’s because the dildo doesn’t change size or shape as it moves through your vagina. It simply goes in and out, so your vagina stretches but then contracts back to its original size afterward.
At the same time, it’s important to remember that a dildo isn’t just about getting off. It’s a great way to explore different kinds of sensations and figure out what makes you feel good. With a little bit of practice, you can even learn to control how deep the dildo goes and how long it stays inside you. This can help you become more aware of your body’s needs and better understand what kind of pleasure works for you.
But don’t just take my word for it, why don’t you give it a go? Go to a respectable sex shop and find a dildo that feels good to you. Don’t worry about size too much, because there are lots of different kinds and sizes of dildos available. Make sure to get one that has a smooth surface so it won’t cause any discomfort when inside you.
Once you have picked out your dildo, you’ll need to get some lube to use with it. Lubricant helps make the experience more comfortable and can even create a smoother experience when it comes to anal sex. I also recommend using a condom as a barrier for sanitary reasons.
The key to a good experience with a dildo is taking your time. Start slowly with shallow thrusts and then gradually increase the depth and speed. Again, this will help you become more aware of your body’s needs so you can find out what kind of sensations you enjoy most.
That being said, there are definitely some risks associated with being too adventurous. For one thing, if you push the dildo in too deep, you run the risk of injuring your cervix. It’s best to stay shallow and use lube, so you don’t cause any discomfort. Another potential issue with using a dildo is bacterial vaginosis, which can happen if you don’t clean the toy before and after each use.
These are just a few of the potential risks associated with using a dildo, but there are ways to reduce your chances of experiencing any problems. For example, make sure to always use lube to avoid any friction and never use the same toy for both vaginal and anal play. Finally, always clean the dildo before and after use to reduce the risk of infection.
So, to answer my original question: no, your vagina won’t loosen if use a dildo, as long as you practice safe sex toy habits. With that in mind, I’m excited to start exploring with my newfound toy. I’m sure I’m going to discover lots of pleasure that I didn’t know was possible.
I’m aware that every time I use a dildo, I’m at risk for infection or discomfort. But I also know that I’m taking measures to prevent any issues and I’m investing in quality sex toys and lubricant. That means I can relax and enjoy exploring my body in a way I hadn’t dared before.
Still, it’s important to make sure I’m being safe and communicate with my partner. That can help ensure we’re on the same page about what feels good. We could also even experiment together with the dildo, vibrators which can be really fun and exciting.
I’m also conscious that not everybody might be as enthusiastic about using a dildo as me. That’s totally OK — I’m just so passionate about gaining a deeper understanding of my body and its needs.
I’m really looking forward to what I’m going to learn about myself with this new journey. I’m sure lots of surprises are headed my way!