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I was recently at a dinner party and the conversation started to get interesting. This cool older woman was talking about sex and sex toys. I couldn’t believe it! The other guests were a little uncomfortable, but she appeared unfazed. She was confident and had a good knowledge of the subject. It was really interesting to get her perspective on it.
At first, we were all a bit shocked. But then she started talking about the different types of sex toys available such as dildos and vibrators. She was very open about it and went into detail about how to use them. Of course, some of the comments shocked us all. But it was also kind of fascinating to hear an older woman talking about such a taboo topic.
She then started to ask us questions, like what we knew about different positions and other tips on how to make it more enjoyable for both parties. We were all quite taken aback, but then the conversation became more and more interesting as she dished out advice.
Now, I’m not an expert in the bedroom by any means. But what I did pick up from her was that sex should be enjoyable for both partners. She also said that sex toys can add an interesting element to sex. She noted that using sex toys can even help with achieving orgasm.
Then she went into talking about contraception. This was really interesting as I know it can be quite a sensitive subject for some people. She talked about the different types of contraception available, such as the pill, condoms and the IUD, and the advantages and disadvantages of each. It was really interesting to hear her take on the matter, and it kind of opened up my eyes to some of the options available to me.
She was so funny and personable about it all. I also took away the message that it’s OK to just be yourself in the bedroom. Never be afraid to talk about sex and explore what makes you and your partner comfortable. Experiment, laugh and don’t be afraid to make mistakes.
Moving on, she discussed the different types of role play that can be a lot of fun to add some spice to the bedroom. She even admitted to playing out some of these fantasies herself, which I found quite surprising. She also said that if you’re feeling stuck when it comes to new ideas for the bedroom then a book or movie can provide endless inspiration.
Lastly, she concluded by speaking about the importance of communication in the bedroom, specifically about boundaries and kinks. She said that it’s very important to talk to your partner about these things beforehand, so you know what each other are comfortable with. “You never know who will be open to something new,” she said.
Now, in follow up of this discussion about sex and sex toys, I started to explore some of the common misconceptions around them. For instance, not all sex toys are designed to achieve an orgasm. In fact, some are designed to be used for massage, arousal or even just to provide pleasure without an intended end goal. Also, the quality of sex toys available has hugely improved over the last few years, with the majority being made with body safe materials and being easily cleaned.
Furthermore, there is now more focus on the wellness aspect when it comes to sex toys. This is an extremely positive development. There are now products specifically designed to take into consideration the physical and mental wellbeing of the user. Many of these products have been designed to be used alone or with a partner.
It’s also worth mentioning that sex toys can be used in a variety of ways and are not just used as a replacement for a partner. For example, people use them to help with exploring their own body, some use them as an aid to foreplay and others may use them as a way to explore various fantasies. It’s safe to say that sex toys are becoming more and more normalised, which is a good thing.
Finally, there is no need to feel ashamed about using sex toys. There is a lot of stigma attached to them but this shouldn’t be the case. Sex toys can be a great way to explore your own sexuality, spice things up in the bedroom and to get to know your own body better. Everyone should feel comfortable talking about them, and with thoughtful use, they can make sex more enjoyable and even help with deepening intimacy in a relationship.