First, make sure you are in a comfortable arrangement. Whether that means taking a warm bath or shower with a nice, inviting scent, or spreading out on the bed with a cozy blanket, set up a space that you want to relax in. Dim the lights and turn on some nice music. Then, start your slow build up. Gently caress yourself, starting from the top of your head and slowly making your way down your body. Softly squeeze and massage your shoulders and chest, and stroke your thighs and lower legs. Run your hands up and down your Penis Rings, increasing the pressure and speed as your arousal grows. Notice how it feels when you lightly or tightly grip your penis, or swirl your grip around the head or shaft.
The next important thing to pay attention to is your breathing. Take slow, even breaths and relax any tension in your body. Focus on the pleasure you are creating, letting your full attention be devoted to it. This helps draw out your experience and make it last longer. With your eyes shut, create mental images of whatever fantasies turn you on. This is a great way to get your juices flowing and take you to the height of stimulation. Once you get to your peak, you may want to focus on pressing and holding a spot near the base of your penis in order to extend the pleasure and delay the climax.
If you want to heighten the intensity of your orgasm, try PC muscle exercises. These pelvic floor exercises help build muscle strength and control, allowing you to, in essence, have more control over when your climax occurs. To perform this type of exercise, simply stand or sit, and contract the same muscles you use to stop urination midstream. Squeeze these muscles tightly for three seconds, and then relax them for three seconds. Do this for about five minutes, three times a day.
You can also use fantasy to take you over the edge. Whether you imagine yourself with a particular person, place, or thing, bask in the pleasure of this mental image and let yourself take it as far as you want. Living out fantasies like this can be an extremely effective way to get to the point of no return.
Experimenting with male masturbation methods can be fun and help spice up your solo life. Try stimulating different parts of your body for out-of-the-ordinary stimulation. Run water over your nipples or caress your stomach and inner-thighs. Homemade sex toys might sound intimidating, but they can be as simple as a banana or other vegetables. Experiment! Make it an adventure.
You can also reach out to your friends with similar interests and ask for tips and tricks to last longer, satisfy more intensely, or get to the next level. If any of them have used specific products, ask what they are and how effective they were. Online forums are a great way to access other men’s stories and tips without potential judgment or bias when asking these types of questions.
Of course, the best way to learn is to experiment and find out what works for you. Make sure the goal is pleasure and satisfaction, no matter how long it takes to get there. Above all, enjoy the journey!