I’m pretty sure pretty much all guys have at least thought about male anal masturbation. I mean, it’s just another way for a man to pleasure himself right?
Well, after some research on the matter, I discovered that it can actually be quite an enjoyable experience. Here’s a few tips for trying it out.
First, make sure to have the right supplies. Lube is key, and sex toys make sure it’s the kind formulated specifically for anal sex. Also, depending on what kind of sensation you’re going for, consider buying specialty toys like vibrators or butt plugs.
Next, prepare your mind and your body. Take your time, since there’s no rush. Start by taking slow, deep breaths to relax and get relaxed. From there, decide on a pleasurable position for your body. According to experts, hands and knees tends to be the most comfortable and convenient pose.
Now, listen to your body and what it’s telling you. Start with a warmup first — try using the pads of your fingers in a massaging motion and explore the area around your anus and the entrance to your rectum. Find your own comfortable pace, and see if you can start to focus on your pleasure. You may also want to incorporate some lubrication.
Once you’ve found a rhythm that works for you, try to explore different forms of stimulation. Try different kinds of strokes, pressure, and speeds to see what you like best. Experiment with your toys if you have any. Remember to always go slow and listen to your own body — if something doesn’t feel good, adjust accordingly.
Finally, when you’re finished, make sure to clean up the area and take your time coming down from the experience. Spend a few minutes taking deep, calming breaths and allowing your body to relax. And if you have any aftercare rituals that make you feel good—here’s your chance to practice them.
So far, that’s all I’ve learned about male anal masturbation. It’s definitely something to try..if you haven’t already!
But after my first-hand experience, I realized that the how-to isn’t everything. Once you’re into it, there’s still a lot to figure out.
For example, if you’re planning on having anal sex with a partner, the importance of communication is critical. Talk it through beforehand, and make sure you both feel comfortable. It’s also a good idea to use protection if you’re engaging in anal play, and to know the risks associated with it.
And, before you go all in, check in with yourself. It’s important to explore and understand your reasons behind wanting to have anal sex. Is it because you want to explore new sensations, out of curiosity, or because someone else wants you to? Only engage in activities you feel comfortable with.
I found out that understanding the basics of anal sex is important and that it’s normal to be a little intimidated if you’re new to it. If you take the time to research and become informed, you can make your experience more enjoyable.
An unintended benefit of my experience was that it made me more mindful of my body. Taking the time to explore what feels good to me was an enjoyable experience. I also realize that everyone’s journey is different, and we should unapologetically do what feels right for us.
Most importantly, I learned that open communication, lubing up, and taking things slow are the most important components of anal play. Oh, and don’t forget the toys! They can really take things to the next level.
It is also important to show respect for your partner, by engaging in activities that makes them feel both mentally and physically comfortable. It’s also important to remember that consent should be given and respected in any type of physical intimacy.
It also helps to experiment in different positions because it increases the access to different areas of pleasure. You can also use toys to stimulate different areas around the anus. Some areas are very sensitive, while other areas are not very sensitive, so it’s important to take your time and explore what feels good.
Overall, when it comes to pleasure during anal play, it’s important to be mindful of what the body is saying. Listen to your body and pay attention to the signals it’s sending. Your body will let you know what it likes and doesn’t like—so trust it, and enjoy the experience!