I remember the first time I thought about what it would be like if a girl had a dildo. I was in my teens and the idea of it made me so embarrassed, yet intrigued. I was a little too curious and asked my girlfriends, only to receive a range of answers from, “It’s none of your business!” to “Of course I have one!” I was so surprised by the number of yes answers I got. This made me really think about how many girls are actually using dildos these days.
Back then, there was a huge stigma around women owning and using dildos. It was almost like it was wrong to even bring up the topic. Now, it’s much accepted as part of sex dolls culture, and as sex becomes more open and discussed, it’s less of a taboo.
These days, there’s a wide range of shapes, sizes and colours of dildos available on the market. It’s much easier for a girl to access them, either through store or online. Also, many girls may be exploring dildos on their own, learning about the sensations it can provide. There are even double-ended dildos, which are great for partner play.
The shifting perception around sex and pleasure has contributed to why so many girls have dildos. They are no longer seen as something to be ashamed of, but instead something to be embraced and explored. And with the right education, consent and safety guidelines, sex can be a very positive experience.
My opinion on girls having dildos is that it’s their right to explore their sexuality in whatever way feels enjoyable to them. And if they choose to use a dildo in their play, so be it! The important thing is that it’s taken out of the shadows and that it’s done in a respectful way.
I also think that if more girls felt comfortable talking openly about sex and pleasure, there would be an even greater acceptance of using dildos. Also, it’s really important to have open and honest discussions with sexual partners, so that everyone is on the same page in regards to boundaries and pleasure.
Ultimately, I think it’s important to consider that sex should be a judgment-free zone. Whether in regards to using a dildo or any other sex act. Everyone should feel safe to explore and express themselves in whichever way feels right to them. After all, sex is meant to be an enjoyable experience that should be cherished.